Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/ Tue, 31 Aug 2010 13:33:55 -0700 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/comment-page-1/#comment-4946 I DO Want To Be Your Facebook Friend, I Do I Do Thu, 08 Jul 2010 05:16:52 +0000 http://mattsingley.com/blog/?p=1651#comment-4946 [...] by Jessica Gottlieb on July 7, 2010 In facebook, privacy, social media, A while back I deleted about 3,000 facebook friends. As Jane is embarking on her tweenage-hood and exploring social networks, I decided to close mine down. [...] [...] by Jessica Gottlieb on July 7, 2010 In facebook, privacy, social media, A while back I deleted about 3,000 facebook friends. As Jane is embarking on her tweenage-hood and exploring social networks, I decided to close mine down. [...]

]]> Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/comment-page-1/#comment-3800 Heather White Laird Thu, 08 Apr 2010 00:25:54 +0000 http://mattsingley.com/blog/?p=1651#comment-3800 Your actions are definitely becoming a trend. It would be preferable if Facebook did not require users to have a personal page at all, but there is no other way to have a Fan Page. There are also lots of problems with Fan Pages, such as you don't get notified when someone comments on your wall, which you do get on your personal page. I spoke to Facebook abt this, and they freely admit they have implemented that for large companies,such as Pepsi, who can get thousands of comments and many of thousands of Likes, on a single post. But for smaller business owners, it means you constantly have to check your posts in case you need to respond to comments. BTW you know they are changing the wording and doing away with the call to action "Become A Fan". Very soon the button will just say "Like". Your actions are definitely becoming a trend. It would be preferable if Facebook did not require users to have a personal page at all, but there is no other way to have a Fan Page. There are also lots of problems with Fan Pages, such as you don’t get notified when someone comments on your wall, which you do get on your personal page. I spoke to Facebook abt this, and they freely admit they have implemented that for large companies,such as Pepsi, who can get thousands of comments and many of thousands of Likes, on a single post. But for smaller business owners, it means you constantly have to check your posts in case you need to respond to comments. BTW you know they are changing the wording and doing away with the call to action “Become A Fan”. Very soon the button will just say “Like”.

]]> Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/comment-page-1/#comment-3696 Avi H Wed, 10 Mar 2010 15:54:22 +0000 http://mattsingley.com/blog/?p=1651#comment-3696 We (my company) started off with a Facebook group before we got a F** Page, so as admin when I had to send out messages, it came from me and not the company per se. And there are a lot of people for one reason or another - trying to get a date, looking to score a personal company insider - who would send me a friend request. I am very firm with my lines of demarcation. Twitter - work and a bit of interpersonal banter. Most updated Blog - a lengthier version of Twitter, with my secondary blogs being personal. Facebook - personal. There is no work there, and my vacation photos and opinions on politics, sports etc are not open to the masses. I don't think I am that important or popular to have my own page but I would drive people back to my Twitter acct. I have also observed people making the most inane updates on Facebook profiles which their bosses or clients are privy too. Crazy. I am with you on keeping the social media channels specific to an audience and not confusing or traumatising those to whom certain channels may just not be relevant. We (my company) started off with a Facebook group before we got a F** Page, so as admin when I had to send out messages, it came from me and not the company per se. And there are a lot of people for one reason or another – trying to get a date, looking to score a personal company insider – who would send me a friend request. I am very firm with my lines of demarcation. Twitter – work and a bit of interpersonal banter. Most updated Blog – a lengthier version of Twitter, with my secondary blogs being personal. Facebook – personal. There is no work there, and my vacation photos and opinions on politics, sports etc are not open to the masses. I don’t think I am that important or popular to have my own page but I would drive people back to my Twitter acct. I have also observed people making the most inane updates on Facebook profiles which their bosses or clients are privy too. Crazy. I am with you on keeping the social media channels specific to an audience and not confusing or traumatising those to whom certain channels may just not be relevant.

]]> Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/comment-page-1/#comment-3654 Paul Sutton Mon, 01 Mar 2010 11:05:01 +0000 http://mattsingley.com/blog/?p=1651#comment-3654 Great post, Matt. I did the same thing a few weeks back, Matt - purged my Facebook page. To me personally, my Facebook page is a private 'resource' to keep in touch with friends and family. I post updates, pictures and information about my personal life that my friends and family will understand because they know me as a person. So anyone who's left (and it's now down to around 60 people only) I know in person and offline. I use Twitter and my blog to keep in touch with others, and there's a clear distinction between public and private in my mind. Great post, Matt.

I did the same thing a few weeks back, Matt – purged my Facebook page. To me personally, my Facebook page is a private ‘resource’ to keep in touch with friends and family. I post updates, pictures and information about my personal life that my friends and family will understand because they know me as a person. So anyone who’s left (and it’s now down to around 60 people only) I know in person and offline. I use Twitter and my blog to keep in touch with others, and there’s a clear distinction between public and private in my mind.

]]> Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/comment-page-1/#comment-3650 JR Sat, 27 Feb 2010 17:56:33 +0000 http://mattsingley.com/blog/?p=1651#comment-3650 Matt, I took this route a while ago but closing up my Facebook page to only people I personally know. Great thoughts worth reading for everyone. Matt, I took this route a while ago but closing up my Facebook page to only people I personally know. Great thoughts worth reading for everyone.

]]> Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/comment-page-1/#comment-3644 Jessica Gottlieb Fri, 26 Feb 2010 21:32:44 +0000 http://mattsingley.com/blog/?p=1651#comment-3644 It's funny that we are both going through this at the same moment. I love the relationships I've cultivated here online just as I love the relationships I've cultivated in person. Separating the two may be impossible, and might not even be the goal, but my family has some needs for privacy that I have to respect. It’s funny that we are both going through this at the same moment. I love the relationships I’ve cultivated here online just as I love the relationships I’ve cultivated in person. Separating the two may be impossible, and might not even be the goal, but my family has some needs for privacy that I have to respect.

]]> Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/comment-page-1/#comment-3643 LBS, VC, Apps and Me (or you) Fri, 26 Feb 2010 19:42:37 +0000 http://mattsingley.com/blog/?p=1651#comment-3643 [...] my friend Matt Singley, I’m reviewing the way I do things. If I’m not your Facebook Friend, and I was three [...] [...] my friend Matt Singley, I’m reviewing the way I do things. If I’m not your Facebook Friend, and I was three [...]

]]> Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/comment-page-1/#comment-3631 Joel Hughes Fri, 26 Feb 2010 08:03:11 +0000 http://mattsingley.com/blog/?p=1651#comment-3631 Hi, Very interesting article! A question I have is this: Why didn't you simply segregate these "non-real-live-friends" into different "facebook lists". Not only does facebook have this availity but, since the upgrade to the publisher tool, has the ability to allow you to send different messages to different lists? Such an approach means you haven't got to go through awkward "de-friending" (what a term!) or that awkward "err...should I accept you?" Bit Also, and this is pretty important. When you interact with someone elses fan page (and yes, I wish it were called anything but that!)you intereact via your personal account - not your fan page persona - in the current Facebook model therefore have no choice to show that there are two entities at play. Hopefully this makes sense - written from my blackberry so sorry if there's any typos! Joel Hi,
Very interesting article!

A question I have is this:
Why didn’t you simply segregate these “non-real-live-friends” into different “facebook lists”. Not only does facebook have this availity but, since the upgrade to the publisher tool, has the ability to allow you to send different messages to different lists?

Such an approach means you haven’t got to go through awkward “de-friending” (what a term!) or that awkward “err…should I accept you?” Bit

Also, and this is pretty important. When you interact with someone elses fan page (and yes, I wish it were called anything but that!)you intereact via your personal account – not your fan page persona – in the current Facebook model therefore have no choice to show that there are two entities at play.

Hopefully this makes sense – written from my blackberry so sorry if there’s any typos!

Joel

]]> Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/comment-page-1/#comment-3629 Adam Vincenzini Fri, 26 Feb 2010 07:10:06 +0000 http://mattsingley.com/blog/?p=1651#comment-3629 Matt, this is something I've been discussing with my friends (or whatever the term is!!) for the last few weeks - it's prompted me to write a post in response: It is time to redefine 'friend'? http://thecommscorner.blogspot.com/2010/02/is-it-time-to-redefine-friend.html I totally believe Social Media has only enriched my life, but it is a toughie... Matt, this is something I’ve been discussing with my friends (or whatever the term is!!) for the last few weeks – it’s prompted me to write a post in response: It is time to redefine ‘friend’?

http://thecommscorner.blogspot.com/2010/02/is-it-time-to-redefine-friend.html

I totally believe Social Media has only enriched my life, but it is a toughie…

]]> Nexium Pharmacy No Prescription - Online DrugStore http://mattsingley.com/blog/2010/02/renewing-the-line-between-public-and-private/comment-page-1/#comment-3626 scott overpeck Fri, 26 Feb 2010 06:30:20 +0000 http://mattsingley.com/blog/?p=1651#comment-3626 2 questions: 1. will you old (more personal blog) archive be available on the new private fb profile? I was inspired by your thoughts on fatherhood long before we ever met in real life. 2. Who took the picture of you on the toilet? Can I get a hi res copy? (; 2 questions:

1. will you old (more personal blog) archive be available on the new private fb profile? I was inspired by your thoughts on fatherhood long before we ever met in real life.

2. Who took the picture of you on the toilet? Can I get a hi res copy? (;

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